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Cautionary Tales For Children
Wonderful witty poems great for reading to your children. The stories and rhymes will stay with them for the rest of their lives.
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Research has shown how important YOU are to your children and how as a dad the things you do, and keep on doing, really count, whether you live with them, or you are a single dad and are only able see them once a month, once a week or more, what you do really matters. This site is dedicated to all dads but will be of special relevance to the single dad. Remember, you are half the reason your children exist and they need you whether you live with them or not. As their dad, you have what it takes to make their lives successful and fulfilling no matter how often you see them. This site is about all the positive things that we as parents have to offer our children.
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Finding dad a date
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by James Mortimer
Well what a week it has been for me. It all started with my business partner Tony Uden telling me I should ring the Christian O’Connell Breakfast Show on Absolute Radio as they had launched a campaign called Find Dad A Date and Christian was looking for a single Dad who needed some help finding a nice date and was up for having some fun along the way. I was not sure to start with but I was talked round as I feel that I do have a story to tell and at the back of my head I was hoping that maybe explaining this to others may do some good.
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I rang up at the last minute and spoke to the studio but I wasn’t actually expecting to go live on-air so was completely unprepared but hey, never mind, the guys and girls there were very kind.
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I explained that I had lost my wife to cancer in June, and that I had now taken full responsibility for my five-year old son Joseph. Not only that, I have a full time job running a lettings agency in Brighton and also look after the house, and well everything really.
I think this must have struck a chord with many other single dads out there as I actually went on to win the competition! When Christian rang up to ask if I would I do it I jumped at the chance, truly believing that it would be a great platform to help others, and get a date at the same time.
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Single parents have so much responsibility and so little time that we often forget to do something for ourselves. That’s why I think it’s great that Chrisitan came up with Find Dad A Date and is doing something for blokes who are often bottom of the pecking order when it comes to dating. God knows meeting a good woman is hard enough but juggling that with being a good father can seem like mission impossible.
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If you have been through what I have been through this year then my heart really goes out to you, it is like having your heart ripped out and skewered on a pole. Luckily, my wife was so fantastic and told me what she expected of me. She said that I must get back on my feet as soon as possible for Joseph’s sake, and to be honest that little man has helped me get through this awful ordeal. She also said that I need to get back out there and meet a nice lady, partly for me and also for Joseph.
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So, hard as it’s been, that’s exactly what I’m doing. Christian tells me that lots of women have been calling and texting the Absolute Radio Breakfast Show asking to meet me which all seems a bit surreal and this week I’m going out with three of them! I’ve no idea what to expect but that’s part of the fun. If you had told me even a month ago that I’d be on national radio and having blind dates I’d never have believed it but life is too short not to take opportunities that come your way.
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At the end of the day gents, things can be good.
To follow James' story tune in to the Christian O'Connell Breakfast Show on Absolute Radio, weekdays from 6am-10am, on DAB and 1215am nationwide or on 105.8FM in London. Alternatively log on to http://www.absoluteradio.co.uk
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